20Something and Surviving

Simple Obsessional

Being the avid and disciplined (yeah right) individual that I am I did some research on stalkers. I can get somewhat obsessive like that. Must be the reason I attract these weirdos or am attracted to them.

Anyway I found out the following:
There are three types of stalkers namely Simple obsessional, Love obsessional Erotomania or false victimisation. Google it if you must.

I’m dealing with just the one. I think. I hope. The Simple (!), which is supposedly “ most common form is male with a female with whom he was once sexually intimate”. But in reverse. I’ve spammed but that little box still appears and my curiosity is getting the better of me.
She claims she just wants to be friends. I believe in the adage that breaking up with someone and saying we can still be friends is like your dog dying and your mom saying you can still keep it. Not gonna happen.

Usually when it ends and it usually does, my dear friends (incorrectly) call me a male whore, its amicable. This is because we both have the silent agreement that we would do the avoidance thing. Then months later we see each other and give the nod and timid smile and things progress as they are meant to. But this vamp is totally messing with the system.

I continue to ponder…
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May 14, 2008 - Posted by | break-ups, obsession, relationships, stalker

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